I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to go outside of my comfort zone at all. I like to keep a few keep close to me and that's okay with me. Everyone else is either just there or means a little to me. The ones I do care about the most are who I call my "BEST FRIENDS". Best friends take time to establish for me, and there are somethings I look in people to call them a best friend. Not in any kind of order:
1). Loyalty- This pretty much speaks for itself
2). Trust- Trust is VERY BIG thing for me. If your my best friend I have to be able to "trust you". If that trust ever breaks I'm the kind of person that will never trust you again or will take a VERY LONG time to regain that trust. I don't care who you are.
3). Funny/Serious- a best friend that is funny and can make me laugh, but at the same time when it comes down to I can be serious with and feel comfortable having a deep conversations with.
4.)Both Ways- I don't know a word for this, but "It takes two". A best friend that I don't have to call/text all the time. I'm the kind of person where my best friends usually always call/text me first to plan something growing up. So, now I'm always in that routine, but I still make a big effort to be that person. So, everything goes both ways.
I have all the best friends I want or need in this world right now. They all have these traits above that I just listed. Some of my best friends I have been friends with forever and some just a year or two that I met in college. I love all my best friends to death, and I look forward to keep growing in each friendship I have.
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Sorry I couldnt help you out with the whole it goes both ways thing.. enjoyed everything you had to say about best friendship. I believe you have to give to recieve aka similar to it goes both ways. I couldnt ask for a better best frannn than you :)
ReplyDeleteI feel like I meet all of these requirements..CHYEA!
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